{"id":7270,"date":"2024-11-04T08:36:05","date_gmt":"2024-11-04T08:36:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/am-i-responsible-for-my-estranged-husbands-debt\/"},"modified":"2024-11-04T08:36:05","modified_gmt":"2024-11-04T08:36:05","slug":"am-i-responsible-for-my-estranged-husbands-debt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/?p=7270","title":{"rendered":"Am I Responsible for My Estranged Husband\u2019s Debt?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div>\n<div class=\"four_by_six\"><img srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt-222x148.jpg 222w,https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt-314x209.jpg 314w,https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt-363x242.jpg 363w,https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt-467x311.jpg 467w,https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt-649x433.jpg 649w,https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt-750x500.jpg 750w,https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt-793x529.jpg 793w,https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/28133720\/DP-estranged-husband-debt.jpg 1200w\" class=\"\" alt=\"Two people's bed is divided by falling earth with money going down the drain in this illustration.\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"single-post-image-meta\">\n<p>\n                                    <span><br \/>\n                        Getty Images and Tina Russell\/The SS                     <\/span>\n                                <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload clicker_number\" style=\"position: absolute; height: 1px; width: 100%\" alt=\"ScoreCard Research\" data-count=\"216.98.0.236,216.98.0.236, 172.71.222.233\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\"><\/p>\n<div id=\"dear-SS Reader\"><span class=\"dear-SS Reader-dropcap \">Dear Penny,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My husband and I have been separated for many years. He made many bad financial decisions after we separated. Will his debt be my responsibility if he dies before me?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014 Til Debt Do Us Part<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Dear Til,<\/p>\n<p>Whether you\u2019re responsible for your husband\u2019s debt (now or after he dies) depends on where you live, whose name is on the account, and whether you\u2019re legally separated or simply estranged.<\/p>\n<p>A minority of states in the U.S. follow a principle called <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irs.gov\/irm\/part25\/irm_25-018-001\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i>community property<\/i><\/a><i>,<\/i> which means you share equal responsibility for all property and debt either spouse acquires while you\u2019re married and living in that state (which includes Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, Wisconsin).<\/p>\n<p>In this case, a legal separation stops you from sharing responsibility for new debt your husband takes out in his name, though physical estrangement doesn\u2019t automatically do so.<\/p>\n<p>If you live in any of the 41 other states, your property and debts fall under <b>common law<\/b>, which means you and your spouse own property and debt separately \u2014 i.e. you are not and have never been responsible for debt in his name.<\/p>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-container\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-image\">\n           <img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload \" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/12092321\/cropped-dana-headshot2-2018.jpg\" alt=\"Dear Penny\" srcset=\"\" data-attribute-no-pin=\"true\">\n         <\/div>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-title\">Ask Dear Penny!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-copy\">Get practical money advice from Dana Miranda, the voice of Dear Penny and a Certified Educator in Personal Finance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-disclaimer\">DISCLAIMER: Questions will appear in The SS\u2019s \u201cDear Penny\u201d column. 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But don\u2019t worry \u2014 your identity will remain anonymous.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-container-success hidden\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-success-image\">\n           <img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload \" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/12092321\/cropped-dana-headshot2-2018.jpg\" alt=\"Dear Penny\" srcset=\"\" data-attribute-no-pin=\"true\">\n         <\/div>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-success-title\">Thank you for your question!<\/p>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-success-copy\">\n<p> Your willingness to share your story might help others facing similar challenges. <\/p>\n<p> While we can\u2019t publish every question we receive, we appreciate you sharing your question with us. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>         <button class=\"ask-question\" id=\"ask-question\">Ask Another Question<\/button>\n       <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"thepe-top-of-post\" id=\"thepe-1315163397\">\n<div class=\"adBorder\" id=\"thepe-1480615748\">\n<h3>50 Effortless Methods to Boost Your Income This Week<\/h3>\n<p>If you needed extra money, like, yesterday, you\u2019ve come to the right spot.<\/p>\n<p>Our team has compiled a <a href=\"https:\/\/partners.thepennyhoarder.com\/50-ways-sdyn-prt\/?aff_id=384\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">list of creative ways<\/a> you can fatten your bank account this week.<\/p>\n<p>This is a long list, so don\u2019t get overwhelmed. Go ahead and start now, but be sure to bookmark this post so you can easily return later. We\u2019ll keep it updated as offers changes or expire.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/partners.thepennyhoarder.com\/50-ways-sdyn-prt\/?aff_id=384\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Check it out!<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>However, any debt you took out jointly with your husband is equally your responsibility regardless of your location or marital status. If you\u2019re a borrower on a mortgage, co-signer on a loan or primary account holder on a credit card, that debt is your responsibility as long as your name is on the account.<\/p>\n<p>If your name is on any credit cards he\u2019s been using, you might be responsible for repayment. This doesn\u2019t apply if you\u2019re only an authorized user on a credit card in his name; regardless of who made the charges, the credit card company only holds the main cardholder responsible for that debt. If <i>he\u2019s<\/i> an authorized user on any of <i>your<\/i> cards, you can contact your credit card company to have him removed. In the meantime, you\u2019re solely responsible for any debt he\u2019s incurred on your cards.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s unlikely you\u2019ll be surprised by a debt you owe after your husband dies. Any debt you\u2019d be responsible for repaying, in that case, is one you\u2019re already responsible for now, and it would be impacting your current credit score.<\/p>\n<p>Request a free copy of your credit report through <a href=\"http:\/\/annualcreditreport.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">AnnualCreditReport.com<\/a>, a federally authorized site, to see which accounts are in your name. Then take steps to disentangle yourself from those responsibilities: Remove your husband as an authorized user on your cards, work with him (if possible) to refinance shared loans to split the debt fairly, and talk to a lawyer to learn your options for debt he\u2019s accrued in your name since the separation.<\/p>\n<p><i>Dana Miranda is a Certified Educator in Personal Finance\u00ae, author, speaker and personal finance journalist. She writes <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthyrich.co\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i>Healthy Rich<\/i><\/a><i>, a newsletter about how capitalism impacts the ways we think, teach and talk about money.<\/i><\/p>\n<div class=\"thepe-bottom-of-post\" id=\"thepe-2010185739\">\n<div class=\"adBorder\" id=\"thepe-733807759\">\n<h3>The 5 Dumbest Things We Keep Spending Too Much Money On<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019ve done what you can to cut back your spending.You brew coffee at home, you don\u2019t walk into Target and you refuse to order avocado toast. 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