{"id":6584,"date":"2024-10-25T06:19:07","date_gmt":"2024-10-25T06:19:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/should-i-buy-life-insurance-on-my-deadbeat-brother\/"},"modified":"2024-10-25T06:19:07","modified_gmt":"2024-10-25T06:19:07","slug":"should-i-buy-life-insurance-on-my-deadbeat-brother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/?p=6584","title":{"rendered":"Should I Buy Life Insurance on My Deadbeat Brother?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload clicker_number\" style=\"position: absolute; height: 1px; width: 100%\" alt=\"ScoreCard Research\" data-count=\"216.98.0.236,216.98.0.236, 172.68.174.32\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\"><\/p>\n<div id=\"dear-SS Reader\"><span class=\"dear-SS Reader-dropcap \">Dear Penny,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My younger brother is very irresponsible. He has a job with benefits, and he lives only for today. I believe his parasite girlfriend is his beneficiary for the life insurance from his job.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Looking ahead, I\u2019m thinking about purchasing a life insurance policy and disability insurance on him because I don\u2019t want to be responsible for his medical or final expenses. I would list myself, then my daughter, as the beneficiaries. What do you think?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014 K.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Dear K.,<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what I think here. What matters is what your brother thinks and whether he\u2019s OK with your plan.<\/p>\n<p>First things first, though: You typically can\u2019t purchase disability insurance on behalf of someone else. If you wanted to buy a disability policy for your brother, he\u2019d have to apply for the policy, and he would be the beneficiary.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you could offer to pay the premiums if your brother buys disability coverage. Since he has a job with benefits, it\u2019s also possible that he has disability coverage through his employer.<\/p>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-container\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-image\">\n           <img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload \" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/12092321\/cropped-dana-headshot2-2018.jpg\" alt=\"Dear Penny\" srcset=\"\" data-attribute-no-pin=\"true\">\n         <\/div>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-title\">Ask Dear Penny!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-copy\">Get practical money advice from Dana Miranda, the voice of Dear Penny and a Certified Educator in Personal Finance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-disclaimer\">DISCLAIMER: Questions will appear in The SS\u2019s \u201cDear Penny\u201d column. We are unable to answer every letter. We reserve the right to edit and publish your questions. But don\u2019t worry \u2014 your identity will remain anonymous.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-container-success hidden\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-success-image\">\n           <img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload \" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/12092321\/cropped-dana-headshot2-2018.jpg\" alt=\"Dear Penny\" srcset=\"\" data-attribute-no-pin=\"true\">\n         <\/div>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-success-title\">Thank you for your question!<\/p>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-success-copy\">\n<p> Your willingness to share your story might help others facing similar challenges. <\/p>\n<p> While we can\u2019t publish every question we receive, we appreciate you sharing your question with us. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>         <button class=\"ask-question\" id=\"ask-question\">Ask Another Question<\/button>\n       <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Life insurance is a bit more complicated. You can take out a life insurance policy on someone else, but you need their consent. You also need to have what\u2019s known as an insurable interest on their life. That means you need to show that you\u2019d suffer financially if your brother died.<\/p>\n<p>You may be able to purchase burial insurance, which is really just a marketing term for a small life insurance policy, on your brother with his consent if you\u2019d be responsible for his funeral costs. Typically, these policies have a death benefit of $25,000 or less.<\/p>\n<div class=\"thepe-top-of-post\" id=\"thepe-1348896973\">\n<div class=\"adBorder\" id=\"thepe-1625003752\">\n<h3>50 Effortless Methods to Boost Your Income This Week<\/h3>\n<p>If you needed extra money, like, yesterday, you\u2019ve come to the right spot.<\/p>\n<p>Our team has compiled a <a href=\"https:\/\/partners.thepennyhoarder.com\/50-ways-sdyn-prt\/?aff_id=384\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">list of creative ways<\/a> you can fatten your bank account this week.<\/p>\n<p>This is a long list, so don\u2019t get overwhelmed. Go ahead and start now, but be sure to bookmark this post so you can easily return later. We\u2019ll keep it updated as offers changes or expire.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/partners.thepennyhoarder.com\/50-ways-sdyn-prt\/?aff_id=384\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Check it out!<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>But to take out a larger policy, a sibling relationship probably wouldn\u2019t be enough to demonstrate an insurable interest. For example, you\u2019d need to show that you depend on your brother for financial support or that you\u2019d co-signed a large debt for him that you\u2019d struggle to pay if he died. In some cases, you\u2019d also be able to take out a life insurance policy on your brother if he\u2019d named you as the guardian for any minor children in his will.<\/p>\n<p>You obviously don\u2019t agree with your brother\u2019s life decisions or his choice of a romantic partner. But it doesn\u2019t sound like you need insurance to protect yourself against them.<\/p>\n<p>As long as you\u2019ve never co-signed debt for your brother, you have zero responsibility for his financial obligations should he become disabled or die. That includes any medical expenses he might accrue at the end of his life. If his estate doesn\u2019t have the money to pay off his debts, your brother\u2019s creditors would simply have to eat the losses.<\/p>\n<p>Think about what you\u2019d do if your brother died tomorrow. Would you want to have a traditional funeral and burial? Or would you be OK with a simple cremation and a memorial service?<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s the latter, you may not need burial insurance at all. The premiums are relatively expensive for a small amount of coverage. You might be better off just taking the money you\u2019d spend each month on a policy and putting it in a bank account to cover any end-of-life costs.<\/p>\n<p>A $10,000 policy for a 60-year-old man in good health costs about $50 a month on average. The premiums are even higher if it\u2019s a guaranteed-issue policy, which means every applicant is approved with no health questions asked. Typically, there\u2019s also a waiting period of about two years, which means if the person dies in that period, you only get a refund of the premiums, but no death benefit.<\/p>\n<p>If you still think you need to buy insurance for your brother, obviously you need to talk to him about it. Try not to focus on his lack of planning for the future or his \u201cparasite\u201d girlfriend. Maybe you could fib a bit and say you\u2019re evaluating your own life insurance coverage. You could then ask him if he\u2019s done any disability or estate planning of his own.<\/p>\n<p>Watching a loved one make decisions you disagree with can be difficult. But it doesn\u2019t sound like your brother\u2019s life choices have a major impact on you. I don\u2019t think this is a situation where you need to shell out money for insurance.<\/p>\n<p><i>Robin Hartill is a certified financial planner and a senior writer at The SS. Send your tricky money questions to <\/i><i><span class=\"__cf_email__\" data-cfemail=\"48093b23182d262631083c202d382d2626312027293a2c2d3a662b2725\">[email\u00a0protected]<\/span><\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<div class=\"thepe-bottom-of-post\" id=\"thepe-639922851\">\n<div class=\"adBorder\" id=\"thepe-1317330131\">\n<h3>The 5 Dumbest Things We Keep Spending Too Much Money On<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019ve done what you can to cut back your spending.You brew coffee at home, you don\u2019t walk into Target and you refuse to order avocado toast. 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