{"id":6151,"date":"2024-10-12T15:54:41","date_gmt":"2024-10-12T15:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/how-do-i-avoid-wasting-my-surprise-4-million-inheritance\/"},"modified":"2024-10-12T15:54:41","modified_gmt":"2024-10-12T15:54:41","slug":"how-do-i-avoid-wasting-my-surprise-4-million-inheritance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/?p=6151","title":{"rendered":"How Do I Avoid Wasting My Surprise $4 Million Inheritance?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div>\n<div id=\"dear-SS Reader\"><span class=\"dear-SS Reader-dropcap \">Dear Penny,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My mother passed away last year, and I am set to inherit her large house (worth $2.5 million) and additionally about $1.5 million. My husband, daughter and I already live in the house, as we were taking care of my mother before she passed.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My husband and I both make a modest living, so this inheritance will obviously make a huge difference to our family\u2019s financial security. However, we never expected to have this amount of money on our hands and want to make sure we invest it responsibly so that it can be a long-term benefit to our lives and our daughter\u2019s future.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We feel like we don\u2019t know where to begin to think about making wise investments. Real estate? Stocks? Just save it up all in a high-yield savings account or CD? Where or who can we go to for the most trustworthy advice on what to do with this money?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Obviously, this is the best kind of problem to have, but we want to make sure we don\u2019t blow it all on silly spending.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014 A.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Dear A.,<\/p>\n<p>People often feel pressure to make big decisions right away when they receive a large inheritance. But rarely is there a need for this sense of urgency. You don\u2019t need to make any big decisions right away. In fact, acting too quickly can cause you to make emotional decisions that aren\u2019t in your best interest.<\/p>\n<p>Because you asked for advice about investing your inheritance, I\u2019ll tell you what I\u2019d do if I received an unexpected windfall: I\u2019d put aside enough money in a high-yield savings account to cover a year or two\u2019s worth of living expenses. Then I\u2019d invest the rest in a low-cost index fund that tracks most of the U.S. stock market, like an S&amp;P 500 fund.<\/p>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-container\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-image\">\n           <img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload \" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/12092321\/cropped-dana-headshot2-2018.jpg\" alt=\"Dear Penny\" srcset=\"\" data-attribute-no-pin=\"true\">\n         <\/div>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-title\">Ask Dear Penny!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-copy\">Get practical money advice from Dana Miranda, the voice of Dear Penny and a Certified Educator in Personal Finance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-disclaimer\">DISCLAIMER: Questions will appear in The SS\u2019s \u201cDear Penny\u201d column. We are unable to answer every letter. We reserve the right to edit and publish your questions. But don\u2019t worry \u2014 your identity will remain anonymous.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-container-success hidden\">\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-success-image\">\n           <img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload \" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.thepennyhoarder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/12092321\/cropped-dana-headshot2-2018.jpg\" alt=\"Dear Penny\" srcset=\"\" data-attribute-no-pin=\"true\">\n         <\/div>\n<p class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-success-title\">Thank you for your question!<\/p>\n<div class=\"dear-SS Reader-form-success-copy\">\n<p> Your willingness to share your story might help others facing similar challenges. <\/p>\n<p> While we can\u2019t publish every question we receive, we appreciate you sharing your question with us. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>         <button class=\"ask-question\" id=\"ask-question\">Ask Another Question<\/button>\n       <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>But that\u2019s what I\u2019d do based on my own goals and risk tolerance. Once your mother\u2019s estate is settled, your first move is to find a financial adviser who can determine what the most suitable investments are for you. Look for an adviser who\u2019s paid using a fee-only model instead of by commission. That means you\u2019ll be paying them based on the services they provide you instead of the products they sell you.<\/p>\n<p>A typical adviser fee is around 1% of assets under management, though sometimes the fee is lower for large amounts of money. Some advisers charge an hourly fee rather than a fee based on the assets they manage, but these structures are more common when you\u2019re seeking advice on a shorter-term goal, rather than long-term financial planning.<\/p>\n<p>The National Association of Personal Financial Advisors (NAPFA) <a href=\"https:\/\/www.napfa.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">website<\/a> is a good resource for finding an adviser. It contains a directory of fee-only advisers that you can search by ZIP code. All of its member advisers are fiduciaries, which means they\u2019re required to act in your best interest.<\/p>\n<div class=\"thepe-top-of-post\" id=\"thepe-1404399428\">\n<div class=\"adBorder\" id=\"thepe-2044784379\">\n<h3>5 Companies That Send People Money When They\u2019re Asked Nicely<\/h3>\n<p>When you log into your bank account, how do your savings look? Probably not as good as you\u2019d like.<\/p>\n<p>It always seems like an uphill battle to build (and keep) a decent amount in savings. But what if your car breaks down, or you have a sudden medical bill?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/partners.thepennyhoarder.com\/nice-companies-prt\/?aff_id=384\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ask one of these companies to help\u2026<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>You may want to meet with several advisers and hire the one you feel most comfortable with. Think of it like looking for a doctor. You want someone who listens to you and takes time to understand your goals. It\u2019s important to find someone who explains things to you in language that you understand. If you feel pressured in any way, consider it a sign that the adviser won\u2019t be a good fit.<\/p>\n<p>Though you expressed concerns about investing the money wisely, keep in mind that investing is just one component of financial planning. When your net worth suddenly increases, your insurance needs often change. You may also want to update your estate planning documents. For example, if you and your husband plan to leave the bulk of your assets to your daughter, you may want to set up a revocable living trust so that you can set perimeters around how she receives the inheritance.<\/p>\n<p>Beyond the financial planning nitty-gritty, give yourself permission to dream a bit. You say you don\u2019t want to blow your inheritance on \u201csilly spending.\u201d But you\u2019re about to receive a life-changing inheritance after many years of living on modest means.<\/p>\n<p>What did you dream about doing back when you never imagined you\u2019d have seven figures to your name? I don\u2019t support going on a spending spree and buying expensive cars and clothes just because you have money in the bank. But going on the vacation you\u2019ve always imagined taking or pursuing your favorite hobby isn\u2019t silly spending.<\/p>\n<p>When you unexpectedly come into money, it often seems like a non-problem. But inheritances can be fraught with emotions. Some people feel guilty that their newfound financial freedom is the result of their loved one\u2019s death.<\/p>\n<p>Focus on spending with intention. I don\u2019t think you have to worry about wasting this money if you think carefully about whether you\u2019re spending in a way that aligns with your values and your goals.<\/p>\n<p><i>Robin Hartill is a certified financial planner and a senior writer at The SS. Send your tricky money questions to <\/i><i><span class=\"__cf_email__\" data-cfemail=\"d293a1b982b7bcbcab92a6bab7a2b7bcbcabbabdb3a0b6b7a0fcb1bdbf\">[email\u00a0protected]<\/span><\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<div class=\"thepe-bottom-of-post\" id=\"thepe-1260433185\">\n<div class=\"adBorder\" id=\"thepe-1160403513\">\n<h3>5 Companies That Send People Money When They\u2019re Asked Nicely<\/h3>\n<p>When you log into your bank account, how do your savings look? Probably not as good as you\u2019d like. 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