{"id":18768,"date":"2025-07-29T23:41:58","date_gmt":"2025-07-29T23:41:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/?p=18768"},"modified":"2025-07-29T23:41:58","modified_gmt":"2025-07-29T23:41:58","slug":"can-i-keep-my-150k-inheritance-secret-from-my-kids-dad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/finderica.com\/?p=18768","title":{"rendered":"Can I Keep My $150K Inheritance Secret From My Kids’ Dad?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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I have inherited $150,000 from my father. What can I do with the money so that my children\u2019s father will not know about it ever? Also, what is the best thing to do to make a safe profit with the inherited money?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

My children\u2019s father is totally an uncontrollable spender. I really believe it\u2019s a serious illness he\u2019s always had, along with many mental disorders. He is a 100% disabled veteran. What should I do right now?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

-K.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Suppose your kids\u2019 father would somehow learn of your inheritance. It really wouldn\u2019t matter because he wouldn\u2019t be entitled to it. Even when two people are married, inheritances and gifts belong solely to the inheriting spouse. So the worst-case scenario is that your ex finds out about your $150,000 windfall, asks you for money and you refuse to give it to him. (The one exception here would be if you owed him child support, in which case the state\u2019s child support agency could go after you for the money.)<\/p>\n

Depending on how your father left you this money, your inheritance may be a matter of public record. If he left you money in his will, your children\u2019s father could find out about your inheritance if he requested probate court records for your father\u2019s estate. But if you received this money through a trust or you were the beneficiary of a retirement account or life insurance policy, this information would generally be confidential.<\/p>\n

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