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\t\tJasmine Birtles<\/small><\/p>\n

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\n\t\t<\/i> 12th May 2025<\/small>
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Love them or loathe them, there\u2019s a good chance you may be heading off to a wedding at some point in the next month or so. And, as you probably know from experience, each invite can really put a dent in your finances.<\/p>\n

It costs each wedding guest around \u00a3451 according to Experian<\/a>. That\u2019s a huge 19% of the average monthly salary in the UK! And if you have more than one wedding to go to this summer, you could see your entire annual savings plan wiped out.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve come up with some easy ways you can save money without skimping on the fun!<\/p>\n

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Rent a Dress<\/h2>\n

HireStreetUK.com<\/a> has a \u2018wedding guest\u2019 rental section, with maxi dresses starting from \u00a318. Even John Lewis has a special \u2018wedding guest\u2019 rental section<\/a>, with dress rentals costing about one sixth of the price that you\u2019d pay to buy them outright.<\/p>\n

You can also rent fascinators on John Lewis\u2019s website. Or, if you like a challenge, make your own using a nice piece of fabric, some feathers and tuille, and an old hair slide. There are loads of tutorials (and even kits for sale) on the internet.<\/p>\n

Tips for Men<\/h3>\n

Guys can also jazz up their out-of-date suit by investing in some inexpensive, head-turning accessories.<\/p>\n

You can get 35% off lapel pins, ties and pocket squares at online retailer Mr Lapel<\/a> by entering my code Jasmine35 at the checkout<\/strong>. It gives you a third off everything, including sales items!<\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t Attend the Stag\/Hen<\/h2>\n

Unless you\u2019re a direct sibling or parent of the bride or groom, you don\u2019t have to attend the stag or hen do. Have a conversation with your friend about the costs, and explain that you have a limited budget that you would rather spend on their actual wedding. Peer pressure can be strong, but remember it\u2019s not worth going into debt for someone else\u2019s celebrations (or, really, your own!).<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re responsible for organising the stag or hen do, keep costs in mind. The bride or groom might want a weekend away somewhere, but most people won\u2019t be able to afford that. Try to encourage a local event or activity, and remind them that it\u2019s about spending time together not having extravagant holidays!<\/p>\n

Save Money on Gifts<\/h2>\n

There are a few ways to save money on a gift without looking like a cheapskate. First, shop online for deals and discounts to find luxury items for a bargain. Use cashback sites like Topcashback and Quidco to stack your savings, too.<\/p>\n

Second, if you know other friends attending the wedding, it could be worth all chipping in for a larger gift together. Many newlyweds would rather have fewer, more luxurious things than lots of small items.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re really hard up, you could talk to the couple about offering your time instead. Perhaps they\u2019re due to move house soon \u2013 offer your services as a moving buddy. Or if you\u2019re a dab hand with a paintbrush, help them redecorate their new place. Maybe they have children or pets that need looking after while they go on dates as a newly married couple. Or, you could provide something for the wedding \u2013 if you\u2019re a great baker, perhaps you could gift them their wedding cake, for example.<\/p>\n

Consider Your Travel and Accommodation Costs<\/h2>\n

Saving on travel is easy if you\u2019re organised about it. If a group of you are all attending from a similar location (such as from a city to a country hotel wedding venue), arrange a minibus and share the costs. Or, if the wedding is relatively local, choose a designated driver who won\u2019t drink alcohol and get them to drive you home instead of paying for a late-night taxi.<\/p>\n

Accommodation costs can quickly rack up, especially if you\u2019re attending a wedding in the middle of the countryside and you\u2019re expected to book rooms at the venue. Make it clear before the engaged couple confirm block booking on rooms whether you will want to take advantage of staying at the venue. It is often cheaper to find a nearby B&B, or even hire a whole house with other friends attending the wedding through sites like Air BnB to help everyone save on costs.<\/p>\n

Limit Your Bar Tab<\/h2>\n

Many couples these days will offer a few drinks included, such as a welcome cocktail and a champagne for the speeches, and leave a cash bar for everything else. This can get costly when you\u2019re buying alcohol, so try to alternate alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. Avoid getting into buying rounds with friends too, as when the night carries on it can be easy to forget whose round it is and you\u2019ll end up spending a lot more than you planned!<\/p>\n

Say No<\/h2>\n

Finally, this one might sound like a spoilsport point, but it\u2019s important to remember. If you can\u2019t afford to attend a wedding as a guest, don\u2019t go. Offer to spend time with the couple another time, perhaps picking an activity that will create wonderful memories for them as a newly married couple. For those who are close to the couple getting married, such as immediate relatives or best friends, you should be able to have the conversation about not affording to go. If they really want you there, they will find a way to make sure you can attend, so be honest about it.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n